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Why Real Men Prefer Larger Women
Who was it who first said that "thin is acceptable, fat is not"?
No doubt some camp, pot-bellied fashion designer or advertising guru who has helped to fuel insecurity and self-abuse by propagating the idea that in order to be successful and loved, you have to look undernourished....
Age Gap Relationships
I am 43-years-old and my partner is 31.
However, I did not consciously choose my partner because he was younger, but because we were on a level spiritually and emotionally and he possessed all the qualities that I would want in the ideal partner....
How to Find Your Perfect Partner by Thought Alone
Just imagine how extraordinary, but wonderful it would be... if you could conjure up a vision of your ideal partner in your mind and then, as if in some enchanted tale, they appeared? (Inspirational) Have you given up on nightclubs, supermarkets, sportsí centres, work or even dating agencies in pursuit of the perfect companion and lover?....
What Do Women Really Want in a Partner?
Sometimes the loneliest people are those who are trapped in unsatisfactory relationships, if you are sad and lonely, that doesnít necessarily mean that you are not part of a couple....
What Men Say and How Women Interpret It
Most women believe that the majority of men are either compulsive liars, or else afraid of voicing their true opinions for fear of the consequences...
Regaining Your Confidence After Divorce

Divorce is never easy and yet after divorce, there is hope. Hope for a brighter future and freedom from the shackles that have confined you to a life of misery, or even a life of denial...


Expert Love Advice Column

Using Music to Draw Out Romance

With each year, our understanding of what we hear and feel in music deepens, especially as we begin to experience love. We hear thoughts similar to ours being sung on the radio. We listen with curiosity and hope of happy endings or perhaps guidance to help us....
Would You Like to Make Your Relationship the Greatest Love Story Ever?
Creating the Greatest Love Story Ever. It's easy to be fascinated by other people's love affairs and desire to have what they have, especially if the relationship is intense, happy, and seemingly problem-free. These great love stories epitomize an ideal that everyone would love to attain.
However, keep in mind that you are seeing only the public image of the relationship. You don't see the work that goes on behind closed doors. All relationships take effort to be successful, especially great love stories....
Making Your Relationship a Fairy-Tale
This image not only deceives women, but also men. Fairy tales have become a part of our image of what romance is supposed to be like.  One of the definitions of the term fairy tale in Webster's dictionary is ďa made-up story, usually designed to mislead.Ē On one hand, everyone k-nows that fairy-tale romances are make-believe. On the other hand, fairy tales inspire us to believe in happy love stories. For this fact alone, they have given us something we need for building our own love affair: hope. Many people have lost hope, and it's time to get it back....
Sexual Shyness
Shyness in the bedroom is common for many people, in particular women. When it's present the result is always the same-physically relating to another person becomes difficult. If it isn't corrected early on, the foundation of a relationship can weaken, leading to sexual frustration, arguments, cheating or worse-a broken love affair....
A Woman Can Never Be Too Safe
Especially when she is meeting an attractive stranger for a first date. The smart choice-meeting in a public place-is not always the decision women make, but should...
An Affair of the Heart, Mind and Soul
A romantic relationship is an emotionally intimate bond between two people. Such a relationship is best when it is with someone who knows you, understands you, and accepts you. It is enhanced through talking intimately about feelings, thoughts, and needs. Sometimes when the qualities of a romantic relationship are not met, one or both partners seek them outside the relationship in an affair. An affair can be as exhilarating as it is destructive to the relationship. When a person in a relationship feels the temptation to have an affair, it's usually because the romance in the relationship has stopped being important....
The Kiss Goodnight

Whether you are married or single, before a date ends, be sure to tell your date that you are looking forward to kissing him or her on the front doorstep....
Lonely In A Relationship
Loneliness comes from being alone, not from being single. As a matter of fact, people in relationships experience loneliness as often as anyone else. The very definition of this word according to Webster's dictionary is, "cut off from others, sad from being alone, a feeling of desolateness."....
Abusive Relationships
Women who get involved with abusive men are typically those who had abusive childhood home environments. This kind of upbringing tends to normalize abusive behavior in all relationships. What this means is that women from this kind of a background are not as keen to the subtleties of abuse the way "healthy" women are....

Relationships: Advice Column

Direct Answers
By Wayne & Tamara Mitchell

Recently Subscribed To an Online Dating Service
I'm not sure if it's the right time to start dating. I am still trying to work out how to return to college and finish my degree...You can't wait until you are a finished person before you start dating....
I Moved Out and Filed For Divorce
I realize now that marriage takes two people for it to work and be happy, but only one to make it miserable...The horizon moon is an illusion which fools our senses. In the same way there is an illusion which fools us when we don't have anyone....
High Society
I feel clueless when it comes to love. I've had lots of relationships that last six months. That's the time men start professing their love, and I find a reason to run....
On With The Show
He's never introduced me to the people in the group and doesn't invite me to cast parties or get-togethers. He says he likes to keep his personal and business lives separate....
One-sided
I am divorced with two grown daughters in their 20s. Both my ex and I are remarried. My problem is the lack of interest my ex-husband shows in his daughters....
Conduct Unbecoming
He was charming, a gentleman, bought her flowers, and showered her with love. He wanted to marry her. She was deeply in love with him. He started acting weird, like a Mr. Hyde....
Cats and Dogs
He thinks the cats should always be allowed in the bedroom and the door should not be closed 'because they like to lie on the bed'....
Office Politics
I felt humiliated and am not sure if I can trust my boss or work for her. What should I do, and how should I react to this matter? ...
Simple Facts
He is seeing someone else. I find it hard to move on. We always talked about being together. I care deeply for him and am not sure what to do....
Just Deserts
He did not pay child support or anything. He now wants a relationship with us. He says he is a Christian. He wants to get to know my sister and me better and be allowed to share in his grandchildren's lives....
Off-Limits
The longer this went on, we both realized we had feelings for each other....
Old Sayings
I got involved with a married man. When ending our affair, I swore to him I would not betray him to his family....
A Weak Defence
I read a letter and reply in your column "Old Sayings." The writer was considering telling the wife of a man she had an affair with about his extramarital activities. You encouraged her to tell. I am baffled?...
Like Versus Love
I woke up one morning and everything that seemed perfect about him before seemed imperfect....
Flight Delay - Social Relationships
I've always had a strong desire for social relationships outside of our relationship. My Girlfriend only requires a lifestyle which includes me....
Future Prediction
I'm in a long-distance relationship. As in all relationships it was wonderful in the beginning....
To Thine Own Self
What does it mean to "follow your own heart"?...
I'll Be Home For Christmas
I have been married 25 years. We come from completely different backgrounds....
Calling Her Bluff
I 've been with my boyfriend for four years, and he is going through the longest divorce known to man....
Irresversible
My husband had two affairs last year. I am pretty confident he is not cheating now....
Texas Justice
Yesterday I caught my girlfriend of two years in bed with my now ex-friend....
Sexual Resume
My boyfriend and I recently talked about my past. I told him about things I've done which I am not proud of today....
Why?
We have been together ever since, until about a month ago....
Second Fiddle I have been seeing a married man for the past nine months....
Friends
Our phone conversations and twice-a-year visits became opportunities for my friend to talk endlessly about her problems. When I tried to fill her in on my own life, she obviously tuned out....
My Life
My sister is 45 and having an affair with an old boyfriend from her youth....
The Long Way
I "settled" in my first marriage. I reaped the results eight years later with a broken heart....
Free Will
Immediately during our honeymoon, Dr. Jekyll became Mr. Hyde....
Time Travel
We end up settling when we reach a point at which we realize it is either that or being alone....
Holiday Romance
We met in Spain and fell for each other immediately, but when we moved in together, things began to deteriorate....
In Tall Grass
My best friend told me last night he got his girlfriend pregnant....
No Victors
Last Friday night I was caught with another woman by my girlfriend....
Not Housebroken
His behavior toward others simply appalls me. He contacted me again and says he wants me in his life....
Criminal History
Can a second marriage succeed if both parties cheated on their spouse in the first marriage?....
Identity Theft

She will ask what I am wearing, then wear something shorter or more low-cut. She sees me in something, then buys that exact item....
Stand-In
My husband and I moved very fast in getting married. On my end, I was lost and lonely after my former fiancé was killed in an accident. I wanted to be close to someone again....
Course Of Treatment
My husband is 45. We are getting ready to celebrate our 25th wedding anniversary. He says we don't have a "spark" anymore. He swears he hasn't met anyone or been unfaithful....
Just Say No
I seem to be in an impossible situation. I am 31 and never married. I don't want to get married. I've never had a girlfriend....
Time Enough - Relationship Commitment
I am 36 and exclusively dating someone, 41, for almost a year now. I feel, given our age, we should have enough experience to know whether we would like to pursue a serious relationship....
Bird in Hand
I am 63 years old. I have met a 32-year-old lesbian. I am heterosexual....
Name That Tune - I have been married to a wonderfully grounded woman
and we have two young children. The problem? My mother-in-law lives from crisis to crisis.....
Friends to Lovers
I am best friends with a woman, I talked to her about a relationship, but she said she only wanted me as a friend....


Doc Love Success Coach

Women Don't Lie - Men Don't Listen

Would Lenny Kravitz Snoop On Her E-Mails?
My current girlfriend of six months, is in regular communication with her ex-boyfriend of five years. She never talks to him or e-mails him while I am around, but I have tracking software on my home computer that registers all inbound and outbound communication. The guy loves her and wants her back. Considering that she lives with me, I feel that this shows a deep lack of Integrity. What do you think, Doc? .....
Would Rod Stewart Buy Her Womanese?

I've been dating for three months now and things have been going fine except for this one phone conversation the other night. It revolved around her ex- boyfriend, who she still sees on a regular basis. (They run a business together.) Anyway, she wanted to know if I felt comfortable with that situation. The conversation then somehow shifted to the topic of cheating. She asked me how I felt about it, and if I would ever take a girlfriend back if she cheated on me.....

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