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Recently my boss updated our software with the new 2005 version. Everything went okay except something was added onscreen we didn't need. It didn't print out on invoices so it didn't really matter. Two days later she went into the software and changed the template. Basically that messed up everything. It wasn't really a problem either, because we got it fixed and everything ran fine. However, while we were getting things fixed, all our invoices had to be handwritten. On a morning when I wasn't at work she informed everyone I caused the problem. Of course, they brought it up later in front of me and her, and she smiled. I came to my own defense and said I didn't create the mess. However, I felt humiliated and am not sure if I can trust her or work for her. She acted like nothing was wrong. What should I do, and how should I react to this matter? This isn't the only incident. - Lily
Machiavelli observed a person who knows how to craftily manipulate the minds of others will, in the end, surpass those who lay their foundation upon honesty. He also noted that most people are so controlled by present necessities and so simpleminded they will allow themselves to be deceived. Blurring reality with lies often works, and what Old Nick said explains why negative campaigning works so well. It also explains why your boss acts as she does. Creating confusion in the minds of coworkers, customers, and superiors about the real source of the problem protects her position of power. You were right to stand up for yourself, and in the workplace that is about all you can do. People like your boss usually pick on a weak target and defending yourself makes you less vulnerable to her attacks. It was said of one American president that he wouldn't tell you your pants were on fire unless he thought it was in his own self-interest to do so. Your boss is like that. Knowing that, you need to decide if you should remain in this workplace. - Wayne & Tamara Relationships - Help And Advice -Authors and columnists Wayne and Tamara Mitchell can be reached at www.WayneAndTamara.com. Send letters to: Direct Answers, PO Box 964, Springfield, MO 65801 or email: DirectAnswers@WayneAndTamara.com. Telling Wife Man She Had An Affair Marriage Relationship Advice Offic politics - I felt humiliated and am not sure if I can trust my boss or work for her. NewFriends4U: Sign-up Free at NewFriends4U! Search & Find New Friends Now! Success Stories Recommended e-Books: Guy Gets Girl How to approach any girl, anywhere and get her to give you her number 500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets Oprah love expert reveals how to bring back the fire into your love life. 100 Questions for Couples What you absolutely must know about your relationship. The Women Men Adore and Never Want to Leave How To Captivate A Man, Make Him Fall In Love With You And Give You The World! Related Topics | how to get my ex back | cheating_in_dating | ending_relationships | larger_women | age gap relationships | find_perfect_partner_thought_alone | what women want | what men say women interpret | confidence after divorce | photo on profiles | romance_love_music | relationship love story | relationship_fairy_tales | sexual shyness | new man woman safety | romantic relationship | the goodnight kiss | loneliness_in_relationship | abusive_relationships | how_to_attract_men | how to attract women | subscribed to online dating service | moved out filed for divorce | clueless love | one sided relationship | daughters father relationship | in love with him | cats dogs relationship | office politics | seeing someone else | forgive christian father | my best friend | affair with married man | married man affair | like vs love | social relationships | long distance relationship | follow your heart | home for christmas | longest divorce | cheating affairs | girlfriend justice | sexual resume | getting back together | seeing married man | friends problems | having an affair | wrong man | violent man | find love | holiday romance | pregnant girlfriend | cheating relationship | he wants me back | honest relationship | competitive friend | married dreams | relationship spark | marriage or not | relationship commitment | friends and relationships | mother in law relationship | friends to love | opposite sex younger people | woman flaws advice | online personals | birthday gift | how to handle a daddys girl | dating dictionary brought friend along | beautiful women | she was married | the angels | dating beautiful women | dating beautiful lady | women seeking divorces | speed dating | age difference | female interest level | |
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