My ex-husband and I divorced 10 years ago. He remarried in 1999 and is in the process of divorcing again. I have found peace in my life with my grown children, grandchildren, animals, home, and work. He, on the other hand, seems to thrive on chaos and criticism of others. His behavior toward others simply appalls me.

He contacted me again and says he wants me in his life. My family is totally against us having a relationship. They all think he is arrogant. I think I still love him, but I don't really think that much of his character. What do you think? - Linda


Linda, who doesn't love puppies? Their antics are spellbinding. But they also mess on the carpet and chew on the furniture. If you take this "puppy" home again, you're apt to remember why you don't really like dogs. - Wayne

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