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I recently moved in with a man. We were friends for three years, then we fell in love. We now live together and have two cats. He is the love of my life: wonderful, kind, and caring. He is truly my best friend. He thought this was terrible, and I was being mean. I know he was upset, and as soon as we finished lovemaking, he got up and let them back in. We don't have children. Do you think this may cause problems for us in the future? I intend to keep putting them out and closing the door. - Amber Amber, Jon Katz wrote a book called "The New Work of Dogs." His name is Katz and his field is dogs, but what he says applies to cats as well: companion animals tend to our emotional needs. We seek beings to love and to love us. Not surprisingly, when television usage exploded in America, the number of companion animals also exploded. Jon Katz mentions a lonely woman who got a dog at Christmas, reasoning if she couldn't find a good man, at least she could find a good dog. Perhaps your boyfriend was like that. At one time the cats were his only reliable companions, and he deferred to them. Now he has you. It's time to discuss the proper role of cats in his life. Jon's book is the kind of book you can read together in bed, with the door closed and the cats on the other side. - Wayne & Tamara Relationships - Help And Advice -Authors and columnists Wayne and Tamara Mitchell can be reached at www.WayneAndTamara.com. Send letters to: Direct Answers, PO Box 964, Springfield, MO 65801 or email: DirectAnswers@WayneAndTamara.com. - My man thinks his cats should always be allowed in the bedroom NewFriends4U: Sign-up Free at NewFriends4U! Search & Find New Friends Now! Success Stories Recommended e-Books: Guy Gets Girl How to approach any girl, anywhere and get her to give you her number 500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets Oprah love expert reveals how to bring back the fire into your love life. 100 Questions for Couples What you absolutely must know about your relationship. The Women Men Adore and Never Want to Leave How To Captivate A Man, Make Him Fall In Love With You And Give You The World! Related Topics | how to get my ex back | cheating_in_dating | ending_relationships | larger_women | age gap relationships | find_perfect_partner_thought_alone | what women want | what men say women interpret | confidence after divorce | photo on profiles | romance_love_music | relationship love story | relationship_fairy_tales | sexual shyness | new man woman safety | romantic relationship | the goodnight kiss | loneliness_in_relationship | abusive_relationships | how_to_attract_men | how to attract women | subscribed to online dating service | moved out filed for divorce | clueless love | one sided relationship | daughters father relationship | in love with him | cats dogs relationship | office politics | seeing someone else | forgive christian father | my best friend | affair with married man | married man affair | like vs love | social relationships | long distance relationship | follow your heart | home for christmas | longest divorce | cheating affairs | girlfriend justice | sexual resume | getting back together | seeing married man | friends problems | having an affair | wrong man | violent man | find love | holiday romance | pregnant girlfriend | cheating relationship | he wants me back | honest relationship | competitive friend | married dreams | relationship spark | marriage or not | relationship commitment | friends and relationships | mother in law relationship | friends to love | opposite sex younger people | woman flaws advice | online personals | birthday gift | how to handle a daddys girl | dating dictionary brought friend along | beautiful women | she was married | the angels | dating beautiful women | dating beautiful lady | women seeking divorces | speed dating | age difference | female interest level | |
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