Simple Facts
My boyfriend and the father of my daughter broke up with me a couple of weeks ago. We were together six years. Last year he moved eight hours away to get himself together and find a good job. Since then he has started a drug and alcohol treatment program.
He said he needed to concentrate on the program and not see anyone, which came to be a lie. He is seeing someone else. I find it hard to move on. We always talked about being together. I care deeply for him and am not sure what to do.
Sarah
Sarah, as we live life, there are certain elements which are simple facts. The sky is blue. The earth revolves around the sun. And when the man we want chooses someone else, we move on.
Wanting a man who has chosen another woman is like craving a pair of shoes which are too small. How could you ever convince yourself he loves you? A man who loves you tells you not only in his words, but with his every action. A man who loves you makes you his own.
The longer you pursue a man who isn't right for you, the longer you delay the arrival of the man who is.
Tamara
Authors and columnists Wayne and Tamara Mitchell can be reached at www.WayneAndTamara.com. Send letters to: Direct Answers, PO Box 964, Springfield, MO 65801 or email: DirectAnswers@WayneAndTamara.com.
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He is seeing someone else. I find it hard to move on.
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