"How to Find Your Perfect Partner by Thought Alone"
Just imagine how extraordinary,
but wonderful it would be, if you could conjure up a vision of your
ideal partner in your mind and then, as if in some enchanted tale, they
appeared? (Inspirational)
Have you given up on nightclubs, supermarkets, sports’ centres, work
or even dating agencies in pursuit of the perfect companion and lover?
Do you feel that you are not deserving of a considerate and adoring
significant other? Or have you had so many bad experiences, that you’ve
convinced yourself that the perfect partner doesn’t exist? ...
Then just imagine how extraordinary, but wonderful it would be, if
you could conjure up a vision of your ideal partner in your mind and
then, as if in some enchanted tale, they appeared? Sounds implausible
doesn’t it? But, believe it or not, you really can find your soul mate
through a process that we subconsciously engage in everyday, called
creative visualisation.
When you are sitting daydreaming at work and perhaps fabricating
scenarios in your mind, you are undertaking the process of inventive
imagery. And how many times have you fantasised situations or future
conversations that have then actually occurred?
Creative visualisation is based on the concept that you tend to get
what you expect. So why not expect the best?
Positive thoughts attract positive reactions, so really believing
that you can attain your heart’s desire is the beginning.
So, what is the first step in psychically luring your future prince
or princess into your life?
You need to conjure up a very exact picture in your mind of the type
of person you would wish to meet, including their personality traits.
Next, start making a list. You should write down all the virtues
that you require in a partner and also a list of the undesirable qualities
that you would wish to avoid. Be very specific, because what you desire
is what you’ll acquire, so if you fail to mention any traits that you
would find objectionable, you may end up with these as well as the more
attractive elements.
Remember, if you have any strong views on an issue such as religion
for example, be sure to mention this. Do you like outdoor pursuits?
If not, you could end up with someone who has a passion for rock climbing,
unless you declare this on your list. What about habits, such as nail
biting for instance? Anything that would grate on your nerves should
be added to the unwanted column. And how would you feel about meeting
someone who already has children from a previous relationship?
Think about all the areas that you would regard as major issues if
you and your partner had opposing views and list these.
Yes, you could end up with a very long list, but the more you write
and the more specific you are, the more likely it is that you will end
up with the person of your dreams.
By writing everything down, you are affirming your desires. Once
the list is completed, read it and re-read it. Picture your partner
in your mind and imagine the two of you together in various situations,
enjoying life together. Visualise conversations. See yourselves as a
happy family unit. Don’t look upon it as an idle daydream. Imagine that
you are looking into a crystal ball at your future. Sleep with your
list under your pillow. If you live alone, stick it on your fridge or
position it in a place where you will see it on a regular basis.
Don’t go looking for the person you have imagined. You don’t need
to force the issue. The person will be drawn to you, even if you feel
you never go anywhere to meet anyone. Your future partner could be someone
who stops you in the street to ask for directions. They could appear
as a salesman on your doorstep, unless of course you have condemned
this occupation on your list!
The mind is the most powerful tool you possess and creative visualisation
has worked for thousands of people in many different ways.
Did it work for me? Yes. I tried it four years ago and I found my
current partner, whose traits exactly matched those on my list. I did,
however, forget to mention a couple of points. The first was my dislike
of football. And what is one of my partner’s favourite diversions? Yes,
you’ve guessed! The second was regarding children. As I have children
myself, I wanted to meet someone who also had children, so that they
would be more understanding as to the ups and downs of raising a family.
However, I forgot to mention that I wanted him to have well-behaved
children, but we’re working on that one!
So why not try it out? You have nothing to lose. Go on, let your
imagination run wild, start writing that list and let me know how you
get on!
Contributed by:
Jan Andersen
©2000 Jan Andersen
About the Author: Jan has worked in marketing and
PR environments for 21 years, she felt that her writing talents, combined
with her psychology expertise, could be better utilised by establishing
herself as a freelance writer. Jane now works from home in Swindon,
England, undertaking a wide variety of commercial projects for a broad
spectrum of audiences and helping to maximise the potential of many
companies and media outlets. In addition to commercial copy, Jane has
contributed articles, features and columns to hundreds of magazines,
books, newsletters, newspapers and ezines and have participated in numerous
TV and radio programmes. Jan can be contacted at: worldwriteruk@hotmail.com
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