| 07 May 2008 2:15 AM |
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Vladimir
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Join Date: 06 May 2008
Location: All Regions, Macedonia
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Penny honey,old habits die hard ,but it ain't in the habits but it the natural need to dedicate to his own time and have a brain exercise,thinking things with another in his mind or you included lol
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| 07 May 2008 2:12 AM |
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Vladimir
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Join Date: 06 May 2008
Location: All Regions, Macedonia
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Mandy dear think ,hubby or not you are determined to get laid hun lol.
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| 05 Apr 2008 5:51 PM |
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Mandy
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Join Date: 17 Dec 2007
Location: London, UK England
Posts: 279
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hi paul im trying mate. but it s very hard to not get peed off with him. i will email you tommorow if ok? thanks
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| 05 Apr 2008 3:24 PM |
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Penny
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Join Date: 28 Feb 2008
Location: Essex, UK England
Posts: 186
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Why do men had the need to have a jerk off when a lady is laying next to them.
It makes me really mad! Surly the sex would be better!
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| 05 Apr 2008 2:18 PM |
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Paul
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Join Date: 12 Mar 2008
Location: All Regions, France
Posts: 8
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Hi Mandy,I am very sorry to hear it did not work out last week end,I am going to give you my email address and if you want to talk to me about it in private then email me...ambienceblue@hotmail.co.uk
I hope you are coping well and are still thinking positive
Paulxx
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| 04 Apr 2008 4:41 PM |
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Mandy
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Join Date: 17 Dec 2007
Location: London, UK England
Posts: 279
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well paul a big fat zero : ( i tried everything and nope, he aint havin none of it, i even got some viagra, and the lazy bar****d cant even be bothered to pick it up and swallow one, i think im fighting with a lost cause here mate, i think its time to think about moving on cause i cant live like this any more : (((((
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| 30 Mar 2008 2:48 AM |
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China
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Join Date: 28 Mar 2008
Location: All Regions, China
Posts: 3
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i want t o se x with Mandy ,i think u mustbe skillful
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| 28 Mar 2008 5:22 PM |
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Mandy
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Join Date: 17 Dec 2007
Location: London, UK England
Posts: 279
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paul thank you ever so much for your advice, i have tried what you have said, but not how you have explained, so this weekend i will try and see where we go from there, because apart from this problem, everything else is great,i find it always better to take somebody elses advice as i never listen to my own lol. I do know what you mean though, sometimes the last thing on your mind is sex, when you have had a hard day at work, then come home to the kids playing about, and not really getting any you time, so i will try my hardest this weekend to make him feel really special. thanks again, and i hope you have a great weekend paul.x
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| 27 Mar 2008 6:06 PM |
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Paul
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Join Date: 12 Mar 2008
Location: All Regions, France
Posts: 8
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Hi Pet!
I agree with you Mandy, sex is the icing on the cake in any loving relationship. It looks like your man's problem could be stress related and that is serious,for it is fast overtaking all other causes for heart attacks in today's world.Their are some simple things that you can do for him,that will over a few days will help in getting him to relax. 1) have a warm bath lightly scented with Lavender oil ready for him, illuminated by several strategically placed candles(no artifical lighting)and if possible some gentle soft music playing in the background.
2)after his bath get him to lie face down on the bed and starting at the head(no oil) proceed to give him a full body massage.You can get massage oils from most stores today. I am assuming that you know about massages.
3)Then suggest he put his feet up and watch his favourite TV progs or a DVD movie whilst you get him is evening meal and drinks.(mother him)
4) and finally cuddle up next to him in a non threatening way(non sexual)and give him a gentle caring kiss, then settle down with him.
5) And I know that this final part can be very hard, considering you are doing all this so that you can make love to each other, but sex is off the menu for a few more days, and I am sure that when he is not under pressure to perform, he will slowly regain his libido...
Love is a two way thing and just giving him a kiss and a cuddle works wonders...
I don't normally use my shamanic training to give advise over the internet,for I normally try and talk face to face with who ever is asking for my advice...But I feel that I should try and help you as I can sense through your writing that you are a diamond of a wife and parent.
I hope I have been of some help to you and I will when I meditate with my goddess spirit ask her to help you if she can.
Take Care
Paul
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| 27 Mar 2008 3:35 PM |
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Mandy
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Join Date: 17 Dec 2007
Location: London, UK England
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paul hi, he started going gym but then he said he was tired still, sometimes i think he is havin an affair. but i just dont think he would, BUT my friend just gave me some viagra pills for him, so you never know what tonight may bring lol.i mean other than that he is a really good man, very hard working, and a real conversationalist, BUT they say sex isnt everything in a realationship!! i think its the most important part what say you?
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| 27 Mar 2008 9:46 AM |
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Paul
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Join Date: 12 Mar 2008
Location: All Regions, France
Posts: 8
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Hi Mandy!
after reading your msge I wonder if your man may have a health related problem due to his lifestyle? In my time I have come across this in friends and ex-work collegues some nigh on half my age, who initially made fun of my healthy living and work out regime, but over the time came to see that I was a lot fitter than them, and that I was less prone to catching all the viruses that they were catching, and when they saw that my six pack was where it should be and not in there hand or hanging over the belts, they started to asked how they could start living the way I do, I advised them to go and see their Doctor and ask him to give them a full medical first, and with those results then go and talk to one of the trained instructors down at there local sports centre, who will willingly put them on a sensible workout routine. But above all try and walk when ever you can. even if its just round the block where you live. I hope I have been able to be of help to you.But get him to the Doctor for that medical.
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| 26 Mar 2008 4:30 PM |
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Mandy
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Join Date: 17 Dec 2007
Location: London, UK England
Posts: 279
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my husband is like alf garnet! or victor meldrew, aslways moans just not in bed, as that's about once every 5-6 months, I know its not me as i have never had a problem in that catogory, so what do you think the problem is? cause this can not go on for much longer, i am seriously thinking of havin an affair!!! i have talked to him about this but nothing ever happens, there is only so many times you can use the ( im tired) routine!!!
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