| 13 May 2008 12:16 AM |
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Robert
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Join Date: 20 Mar 2008
Location: West Yorkshire, UK England
Posts: 48
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hi ioanna,you seem to have made your mind up,i have 2 grown up daughters and 7 grandchildren,1 grand-daughter your age 19 and 1 @17,i know the emotions you are experiencing,all i can say is that you are your own woman and must do what you think is good for you.please recognise that your emotions will warp your judgment,i wish you all the luck in the world whatever you decide,in england an electician is a pretty good job,there earnings are about 50 per cent above the average.your career choice would indicate you are not lacking in intelligence,i do not know you personally,but i put my faith in you to do what in the long term,[the rest of your life,say 70 yrs] is right for you please keep in touch, i would like to stay your friend. |
| 11 May 2008 5:32 PM |
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Ioanna
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Join Date: 24 Apr 2008
Location: All Regions, Greece
Posts: 10
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Thank u very much Robert,but now let me tell u all that i think.I am going to become a diplomat-criminologist and he is just an electrician.I know that he cannot provide me all that i want in my life,but he loves me and i am sure when i am staring at his eyes...I know that there are many other men,but i think that if u love sb,u have to fight and i am ready to fight a duel with myself and to win.I deserve it!Don't u think so?I know that everything will be difficult... |
| 11 May 2008 12:51 AM |
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Robert
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Join Date: 20 Mar 2008
Location: West Yorkshire, UK England
Posts: 48
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hi ioanna, very dificult question,but i'll try my best...nature created 'love' so that humans could procreat and give the young the best chance of survival....understand this and your halfway there...there is no such thing as some ONE for every one,out there are thousands of young men your head would readilly fall in 'love' with.be hard headed and ask yourself questions...can this man provide me with the things i reasonably expect...would i lose my friends and family...would i have to live somewhre i would not feel comfortable...be hard headed remember there are more fish in the sea.its your future its for you to decide..do not blame your parents they are only trying to protect you they may think they see a bleak future for you be hard headed....be hard headed....be hard headed... |
| 10 May 2008 7:12 PM |
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Ioanna
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Join Date: 24 Apr 2008
Location: All Regions, Greece
Posts: 10
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THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR ANSWERS....The problem is that i am greek and the guy is russian,so u understand that the prejudice....My people-family cannot understand and i do not know what to do!Can u suggest something???
Thanks again... |
| 07 May 2008 12:29 PM |
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Penny
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Join Date: 28 Feb 2008
Location: Essex, UK England
Posts: 186
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Hello all,
I agree with you Robert people can learn from each other, old, young any age. I learn a lot from my children and them from me. Life is about learning is it? |
| 07 May 2008 12:28 AM |
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Robert
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Join Date: 20 Mar 2008
Location: West Yorkshire, UK England
Posts: 48
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hi iaonna...it may be that older people are set in their ways and through long experience,rightly or otherwise,think they know better than younger people with limited experience of life.i am an older person,my children and even my grandchildren keep proving me wrong.....sometimes.......do not despair,young can learn from old and old can certainly learn from young,the secret is to try to understand other peoples reasoning and have lots of patience.the world cannot be changed overnight. |
| 06 May 2008 10:18 PM |
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Ioanna
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Join Date: 24 Apr 2008
Location: All Regions, Greece
Posts: 10
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Really,i cannot see the reasons |
| 04 May 2008 7:46 PM |
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Robert
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Join Date: 20 Mar 2008
Location: West Yorkshire, UK England
Posts: 48
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hi.......thats oldies for you |
| 02 May 2008 8:14 PM |
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Ioanna
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Join Date: 24 Apr 2008
Location: All Regions, Greece
Posts: 10
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Why everybody thinks that people from different countries cannot be together?Why parents cannot accept that and they try to destroy everything?? |
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