| 16 Apr 2008 3:19 AM |
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Lori
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Join Date: 15 Aug 2007
Location: South Australia, Australia
Posts: 9
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Hello Kevin
I am in a permanent relationship. My partner not always willing to talk about everything. I have recently made a very close male friend through work. We have a very close,deep friendship and can talk about anything. He is married also. We have talked about this subject also as there have been rumours about us having an affair. We are both above that. We value our special friendship and want it to be just that. I like other women on here have close female friends but get on very well with males. They find me very easy to talk to and trustworthy.
We are all talking to you now Kevin. You may choose not to be a friend to any of us but just talking will prepare you for when that special friend comes along.
Hope you respond. Cheers
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| 23 Mar 2008 2:09 AM |
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Jiji
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Join Date: 16 Jan 2008
Location: All Regions, Morocco
Posts: 25
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i just can say yeeeeeeeees that can be real
i have a real friend (a boy) we love together a love between sister and brother.
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| 19 Mar 2008 2:13 PM |
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Penny
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Join Date: 28 Feb 2008
Location: Essex, UK England
Posts: 187
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A BIG Friendly hug from me to. You have the inner stregth in you. You will find mate :)
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| 19 Mar 2008 10:16 AM |
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Mandy
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Join Date: 17 Dec 2007
Location: London, UK England
Posts: 280
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yes kevin big BIG BIG hugs from us all.. try to think of the glass half full!!
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| 19 Mar 2008 8:16 AM |
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Carol
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Join Date: 09 Jan 2008
Location: All Regions, Turkey
Posts: 84
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Hey, Kevin, I'm sending you a hug - it sounds as though you need one to me. We're all here, please don't be alone, ok. And yes, I too have male friends who are simply that and we all know that we absolutely do not want the chiemistry to chage - that way the friendships last.
You keep your chin up, ok? The only way to go from down is back up again - I hope it doesn't take too long for you. I wish you well.
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| 15 Mar 2008 12:31 AM |
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Mary
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Join Date: 10 Feb 2008
Location: Somerset, UK England
Posts: 167
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Where did I see someone saying about things not always seeming what they are - Mandy I think.
Kevin we are all here to reach out and make connections for what-ever reason. Don't be too down hearted. We all have our ups and down which sometimes seem like the end of the world, but they are not. As you say it is important
to have good friends whereevever they come from. Also remember everyone has their own cross to bare whoever, wherever they are.
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| 14 Mar 2008 7:29 PM |
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Sylvia
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Join Date: No longer a member
Location:
Posts: 167
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I just can say, a true friendship between a man and a woman is the most beautiful ever. I agree with you that many might think there must be "more" between them than just friendship, but I know that just a wonderful friendship can happen between two of different sex. I also come along much better with men (as I am a woman) and I dont care about what other think. I wish you much luck, and I so hope for you that you will find a wonderful female lifetime friend.
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| 12 Mar 2008 6:28 PM |
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Marian
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Join Date: 10 Mar 2008
Location: Kent, UK England
Posts: 5
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Hi Kevin. I'm new to this site, (only joined last night)and have just checked back to when you started the thread. Like you, I can't believe how long it was till you started getting replies. You say you don't go out alone any more - is your wife still around? Are you not able to go out with her as some kind of support in the crowds?
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| 12 Mar 2008 4:02 PM |
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Penny
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Join Date: 28 Feb 2008
Location: Essex, UK England
Posts: 187
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I have day's like that. You do find the strength.
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| 12 Mar 2008 1:56 PM |
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Kevin
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Join Date: 14 Aug 2005
Location: Suffolk, UK England
Posts: 2
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Thank you for all the replies, I can't believe how long age it was when I started this thread, since then my life has gone so down hill that I have just lost the will to even try and claw my way back up the slippery sides of this pit of despair that I have been pushed into. Now I am too scared to go out along and since I don't have anyone to go out with then I just stay in which means I will never meant anyone. I am just counting away the days and hoping this pain will end soon so I can be in peace. Thank you all your comments.
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| 12 Mar 2008 12:39 PM |
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Mandy
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Join Date: 17 Dec 2007
Location: London, UK England
Posts: 280
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i know what you mean pen!! it's only this last 3 or 4 years i have actually had female friends, as i can find them quite bi**hy too. but now i have made quite a few good female friends and luckily we are all on the same wave length....
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| 12 Mar 2008 9:59 AM |
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Penny
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Join Date: 28 Feb 2008
Location: Essex, UK England
Posts: 187
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Hi all, there is nothing wrong to have amle friends. I have a great male friend who i know is there for me and i'm there for him. But people have a said we are having a affair. When its not true. I get better with men then woman as i find woman so b**chy. Kiven i would love to get to know you as a friend. There are things that we all need to talk about, but not with our partners.
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