| 21 May 2008 10:20 PM |
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Penny
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Join Date: 28 Feb 2008
Location: Suffolk, UK England
Posts: 188
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I've been cheated on my exhusband and my exbest friend. Who both said they didn't all the way along. Until 4 years ago my ex husband told me he had slept with her. My best friend was like my sister. But at the time he was having an affair, i had a affair with my partner now for a week before my husband walked out on me and my children. my ex didn't know about the affair, i was having till 2 months after we split. But my point is two wrongs don't make a right. I was badly hurt by the two people who were close to me. I haven't cheated since. It's not worth the heartache it causes.
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| 21 May 2008 3:22 PM |
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Fee
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Join Date: 05 Mar 2008
Location: Lincolnshire, UK England
Posts: 22
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angel wot can i say?? wen my partner cheated he dint admit it i found out and even then he denied it till he cud no longer do so!! and not just the once he done it a 2nd and a 3rd time but deep down i love him and wud neva leave him altho iv been tempted.
im sorry uv been hurt but u shudnt hav done it.
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| 21 May 2008 3:59 AM |
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Angel
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Join Date: 20 May 2008
Location: All Regions, Mexico
Posts: 1
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Hey ladies, I cheated on my girlfriend on march 6, I had never done it before so it was new experience to me, and hated it, I just felt it was not correct and even though I knew what it would end up like, I told her the truth because she had been so nice to me for the past 2+ years. YES we broke up, and I'm still depressed, YES it's been almost 3 months, I had to leave this semester and other things that are making my life a missery like medications and therapy. WHY DO MEN CHEAT??? I don't know why I cheated on her if I had it all with her....I'm a man trying to tell why we cheat but I can't tell, I guess we don't think much when a situation like this comes up. If your man cheats on you and tells you the truth, I hope you analyze his words and feelings so You dont loose a great person even if that person has failed you, trust me I really loved her and I lost her, and she will never know what I could've given to her. P.S. I HATE MY LIFE EVER SINCE THAT DAY.
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| 15 May 2008 2:57 PM |
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Fee
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Join Date: 05 Mar 2008
Location: Lincolnshire, UK England
Posts: 22
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hi ginny i think they deny their own children so they dont have to face the long term responsabilities its too much for some men to handle. its strange that both men and women make a baby yet most women stand by their children and raise them thro thick and thin yet some men just cant do it
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| 15 May 2008 11:53 AM |
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Ginny
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Join Date: 13 Nov 2007
Location: Massachusetts, United States
Posts: 86
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I think nowa days more people are deciding to live together then get married. what I dont get is i've heard people living together for say 5 years and then decide to get married. only to end up in a divorce go figure. I think it has something to do with that binding piece of paper. as far as children not knowing their parent. i'm sad to say that I first married when I was 19. my husband and I have a baby girl, something he ALWAYS wanted "a girl" and now here it is 30 years later and he has yet to set eyes on her. he just walked away. we are divorced of course and he married the girl he was engaged to while we were married and divorced her too. he's always denied he's ever cheated on me...Steven maybe you can answer that. why will a man cheat and deny it? or worse yet, why deny his own flesh and blood?.........if ANYONE has any answeres i'd appreciate it!!
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| 15 May 2008 9:06 AM |
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Penny
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Join Date: 28 Feb 2008
Location: Suffolk, UK England
Posts: 188
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Hi all, Hope you are feeling better mandy, When you have found the answer to why life is so complicated let me know.
I hope your son does welll in his sats. You don't need this right now with your husband, I wish well. Try not to raise to his level when he starts a row. Because it won't do you any good or the kids. because he could use it agaisnt you in the divorce.
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| 15 May 2008 8:53 AM |
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Mandy
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Join Date: No longer a member
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hi steve,ginny,and all.... steve well what can i say, i have been ill the last 3 day's and have kept all of the downstairs tidy,so when the other half gets home he dont walk into a mess,the only thing i have'nt done is put all the washing away what i have also been doing while ill, and all he could do last night was start a big row about it, he hasn't once asked if im ok, and also started being rowdy with my son all because he was'nt sitting straight at the table, he has sats all this week and dont need the added pressure. i think i have finally made my mind up, i am not happy any more and neither are my children, so the only thing left for me is divorce,im also doing a diploma at the moment and really dont need all this. why does life have to be so god damn complicated.
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| 14 May 2008 7:31 PM |
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Penny
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Join Date: 28 Feb 2008
Location: Suffolk, UK England
Posts: 188
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Hi Fee, I know how you feel, I cant really for give my dad for some things he has done to me. What he has done is on another theard Sex in to day's society.
I don't hate him anymore.
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| 14 May 2008 5:49 PM |
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Fee
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Join Date: 05 Mar 2008
Location: Lincolnshire, UK England
Posts: 22
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hiya penny didnt see ur reply there, im in a simular situation my dad came to see me last week after 8 years it was strange coz iv hated him 4 so long but now jus like that iv forgiven him
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| 09 May 2008 1:31 PM |
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Fee
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Join Date: 05 Mar 2008
Location: Lincolnshire, UK England
Posts: 22
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hi ginny yeah i proberly did write that lol cant really remember tho but its true my partner has his nice moments and thats wen i remember why im with him and otha times i just wana strangle him lol x
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| 07 May 2008 1:32 PM |
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Ginny
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Join Date: 13 Nov 2007
Location: Massachusetts, United States
Posts: 86
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Hi Fee, Hi Mandy. I soooooooo agree with you there Fee!!....about just staying with someone even if their not special grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. I hope I read that right
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| 06 May 2008 12:31 PM |
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Penny
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Join Date: 28 Feb 2008
Location: Suffolk, UK England
Posts: 188
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But he has a brilliant step dad, Well my dad turned up after 15years afew months back still trying to get my head around it. I can't get my head around you make a baby with someone your love in a marriage or relationship, then the man just walks away, i waited 3 years for my son and i thought his dad wanted him to. How can men just walk away with no contact?
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